Parts of the letter is funny but not for cheater and the woman dating the cheater.

“He’ll use you up, he’s a selfish lover, he’s a spend-a-holic, and it’s likely he’ll revert to booze,” she writes in the letter titled, “To the Woman Dating My Husband,” which was posted in the Syracuse “rants & raves” section.


It say it all,it describes the emotional and Painful state of a Distressed Wife.

15 years is a long period indeed.

And being cheated by someone close is Painful.

“Be aware that everyday, he wrote me loving, wonderful messages, just as he was talking to you and wooing you.

As far as I knew, we were strong in our relationship. If he’s been telling you something different, get my number from him, and let me show you the messages…

So the following may be you, or it may be “multiples” of you. I do not know how many of “you” there are. So read to the end. You’ll figure out if it’s the guy you’re dating. Perhaps one of your friends will see this and figure it out for you.”

“You also left a bra. You’re size 36 B. I’m a 34C. The bra stank with BO. (Of course, it maybe that it belongs to someone else….. After all, his dating profiles – and–showed that he was horn-doggin’ over a 120 mile radius… )”

“May be you deserve him”

You and he ruined my life, stole the life I spent 15 years trying to build with him, destroyed my identity… I wish I could say I “wish you the best,” but it’s more like “I think you’re about to get what you deserve.”

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